Another interesting debate that took place the other evening was, 'would you trust your guy sharing a bed with a platonic female friend'?
I have done it on a couple of occasions I regularly offer my mbf a bed on a Saturday night but he always cheekily says he wouldn't trust himself, I promise I'd slap him so hard he wouldn't attempt it a second time. I have a good male friend who lives in Germany he regularly visits on the last occasion he stayed his gf who is 8 yrs his junior was screaming down the phone demanding to know the sleeping arrangements!
Is it maturity? Is it trust in a relationship? Or should it be an out and out no, no...as to quote one of the gals 'human nature is guaranteed to step in'!
Let me hear your thoughts...
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I think it all depends on the situation AND most importantly if they cuddle!
ReplyDeleteSay if your the gf and you know the female bf well and your bf and herself are stuck somewhere and only one bed for sharing then I think you probably wouldn't mind. If there's cuddling tho I think you would mind ALOT.
I used to go out with a guy and he would go to parties and stay over and would share a bed with a female friend which i liked and knew would never do anything BUT I knew he used to fancy her so it always made me uncomfy (and there was cuddling). Another time he shared a bed after a party with two girls he had only met that night cause there was no other bed......that defo made me uncomfy.
He was a rubbish bf anyway.
My rule? if I'm going out with someone I wouldn't share a bed with a male friend cause I wouldn't want to cause my bf any undue worry and that should go both ways.
No way should a gf or bf share a bed with another friend of the opposite sex. As we all know eventhough the intention may not be there to start with to do any harm or cause hurt to their partners, 8 hours can be a long time to share with someone without human intervention. Don't go there girls and don't let your men go there either!
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